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male
age
30-35,
*aister901
writes:Recently, i started to like this girl very much and i have very strong feelings for her.I can barely stop thinking about her at any given moment in a day.We have been talking to each other daily, we talk about normal stuff.She even asked me once,if she could see my photos when i was a child and i did share it with her.She behaves very closely to me and talks to me very openly about her life.At a point i asked her if i could get together with her, she said she is not rejecting me yet not accepting and said lets take some time to know each other better.Before i proposed to her, i made sure and even asked her personally if she was single and she said yes.Now, recently i have seen her spending time with another guy very often, she meets up with him everyday when she goes back home. She meets up with him even during lessons, where she pretends to go to the toilet instead she spends a long time talking to him alone in private, i have seen it myself.All my friends say that she is attached with him.Now, i am totally lost and confused as she shows feelings towards me, when i don't talk to her much she asks why i didn't talk to her. She even texts me and asks if i will be coming to school.She even had a strong objection once, when i decided to leave school half way, she kept asking me continously to stay instead.We spent hours talking daily, mainly chatting on msn.However, her behaviour with this new guy.Is making me doubt if she is lieing to me about been single and if her feelings are all just fake.I am even wondering if she is keeping me as reserve if things don't go well with the other guy.I need an advise, on if i should move on and don't care about her.If so, how can i forget about her and move on or should i continue to talk with her and spend time.Its hurting me really bad everyday constantly thinking about her.I really need help.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 She's obviously involved with another man. I'll bet he doesnt know about you. She is playing with you both. She will have to decide what she wants to do some day so you can either wait or tackle it head on. You must let her know that you don't want to be second best and walk away if she can't decide. She is showing obvious signs of the involvement by her actions and by her friends noticing as well.
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