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Helping to find it in the dark?!

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Question - (27 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 December 2008)
A male Australia age , anonymous writes:

My wife has a rather small clitoris and lately,I have found difficulty locating it with my finger. This occasionally annoys her as we have been married 21 years and this started only about 3 months ago.

We always make love in the dark.(Her idea).

Is there someway I can find it "automatically" using other part of her vagina to lead me to the spot.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (27 December 2008):

just run your finger up to the top of the slit in her vaginal lips (vulva) and then rub around the top of that area. it's nice to have the sides of the clit rubbed as well as the clit. so make circles around the top of there and as she gets more turned on it shall swell abit and then you should feel it slightly. but remember keep to the top and don't let your fingers rub down by her vaginal opening. you will find it eventually up top.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (27 December 2008):

DoubleM agony auntIt is located at the top of the crack (vulva). There are ample drawings, photographs and diagrams online. One would think that she knows where it is, and could simply direct you or let you know when you have placed your fingertips on her clitoris.

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