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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I work at a supermarket in the floral department and he works in the produce department and they are in the same area. Hes a few years older than me and everyday he works he comes over to me and says hi and strikes up a conversation. Throughout the time we work he comes back to visit me numerous times. He sometimes tell me about funny things he has watched on tv or on the internet and tells me i should watch them and then he writes down where i can watch it. One time he was working and I looked at him a couple of times and looked away fast and then he walked by and said I saw you looking at me and smiled. He has asked me if I had a boyfriend and if I drink and stuff and he told me his ex girlfriend is creepy because she texts him and sometimes drives by the store to see if he is working. I like ice coffees and one time he came up to me with one and I said I wish I had one and he said well give me your number and when im going to get one for myself ill text you and see if you want one. The other day he asked if I had anyone for valentines day and i said no and he said doesnt that make you sad and i said it doesnt bother me but in fact it does. It may seem obvious that he likes me but sometimes I think he doesnt cause sometimes when hes done talking to me we bump fists and it makes me think that hes being friendly. How do you really tell if hes just being friendly or not?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (14 February 2010):
He seems to like you. There's only one way to find out, and that's to talk to him. Why don't you ask him out on a date? He might be confused about how you feel for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2010): he is definantly showing you all the right signals. I say go for it in a sly type of way. Talk about something you have in common, maybe a movie that's coming out or something. Just ask him if he would like to go with you, so you can see if it might go a step farther. If not it's a friendly venture so there's nothing lost. You need to get out of the comfort zone hince your job. Take it to a public venue, just in case it's a more than pure thought in his head. Take it slow, if he really likes you it's worth the wait.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (14 February 2010):
Well start dropping some hints!!
Talk to him about films, gigs, music, stuff on in town that you would love to go to but your friends are busy / not into it. Point out that you have NO ONE to go with.....
If he doesn't take one of your hints and ask you out then he's just a friend.
Good Luck!! xx
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