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writes:This is now VERY serious. I had posted about my mother in law who is 68(I am 57) and who acted funny over our lunch date by telling me I had a nice bust and by asking whether I caressed it while I was alone. When I went back home that day I fantasised and did the deed! People here told me that because I was depressed, overweight, and divorced by my husband I looked at my mother in law as a fantasy and that it was not a real love, and so on. But yesterday something damn unbelievable happened and I am still numb trying to incorporate it into my system .She calls me around mid-day to ask me whether she could drop by for a coffee. I agree. She also had a jumper for my son (her grandson) that she wanted to give me, which her husband had bought for him. She comes and we sit and chit-chat. She then apologised for her behaviour during THAT lunch, saying 'I am sorry if I embarrased you about the tit talk' (she DID say ''tit'', which I found too much).I said 'not at all, it's not going to ruin our friendship', blablabla. Suddenly and out of the blue, she cups my breasts with both hands, firmly, coming very close to me on the sofa, and starts massaging them. I gasped and became purple, not red, with shame. I did NOT stop her. This IS what kills me. She continues for about like 3 long minutes, saying 'God, they are so big, so big, ' and repeating this. I was in heaven. She looked at me, but my eyes were lowered in shame, so without talking she simply pulled my woolen top up, and cupped my breasts in my brassiere for like another 2 minutes. By then I sighed. Encouraged, she opens my front-fastening and releases my breasts, and puts her hands full on, her thumbs on my engorged and painful nipples. She was so excited! And complimenting all the time. Things like 'How did my son leave you when he had those lovely tits at his disposal every night' and other thigs like that.My eyes were closed so I did not see her but all I know is that she started nursing on one, making loud suckling noises on purpose. She did that for a minute or so. I could not take it anymore so I stood up and went to the bathroom, very ashamed. She ran after me, apologising profusely, saying it was a mistake, that she was terribly sorry. I came out and told her simply to leave. I am now not speaking to her nor taking her many and obsessive calls. She texted me on my cell saying 'forgive me, I am hot for you, give me a chance'. I am thinking today of what to do. This cannot go on longer. I feel like a whore. An old whore, at that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): Cut off all contact with her! Clearly her behavior was outrageously inapppropriate and you are very uncomfortable with it.
If she wants to see her grandson, let your ex pick him up and bring him back. Have nothing to do with this old woman! SHE sounds like an old whore, not you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): You should of stopped her in her tracks as soon as it started. Just make sure that you let her know that she is never doing that again.I wouldn't let her in the house again, keep her out of your life.
I find it hard to believe that you don't know what to do. Have you encouraged this situation in the past? It sounds a bit like a B movie!! sorry to make a joke of it but you need to get your dignity together and get this woman out of your life.
Take care
xx
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (14 February 2007):
 This sounds like a script from a 1950's skin flick - "she opens my front-fastening and releases my breasts, and puts her hands full on, her thumbs on my engorged and painful nipples".
You could find a job writing romance novels. LOL.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (14 February 2007):
 I have been following your story and you were so wrong to let her touching you to go on for as long as it did. You need a BIG reality check! You're not the first woman to be turned on by another woman but your mother in law????? Jeeeeeeeeeze... come on girl. You need to put an end to this once and for all! If you want to experiment with members of the opposite sex fine, but not her! She definitely has some sort of psychological imbalance and she's going to pull YOU down with her if you're not careful. What if she turns the tables on you and tells her son? What if your kids get to find out about it?
WAKE UP!!! Take charge and tell her she was bang out of order! Continue to be courteous to her, she is your kid's nan after all. DON'T be alone with her though and if she starts to talk suggestively again CUT HER OFF immediately! Let her know if she continues to speak this way then she's not welcome any more. If you're firm about this then she'll get the message, but it has to come from YOU!
Eve
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (14 February 2007):
 Is this a joke?
I couldnt stop laughing when I read this.
If its not, what the hell were you thinking. She obviously thought you liked it, and wanted more. You must have sat there letting her do this for about ten minutes. I really cant see why you would do that, to yourself or her.
I can see if this really happened, you would feel really bad about yourself.
What do you meen by saying you are thinking of what you should do. Surely you wouldnt take this offer up, its your childrens nan for god sake.
I'm gob smacked
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