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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: My ex.... well I loved him soooo much and he said he loved me but this girl came in the picture.... okay I thought she was my best friend... well she told him that she loved him soooo he dumped me and he said it was because I flirted with other guys and I never did at all, I can't get over him, I don't know what to do. I want him back sooooo bad and it feels really weird not saying I love you and stuff. I have been very depressed... I don't know what to do, please help me!!!!love koolkat
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Sorry to hear your dilemma, but it is a common one sadly. What a cad to dump you for your best friend, and some friend who steals your bf! I would wash my hands of both of them if I were you.I know breaking up with someone is very painful, and it is good to talk to someone about how you are feeling, whether it be a (real) friend, a parent or a therapist, because it is easy to go off the deep end if you don't have support. Trust me, I'm trying to get over a love that was one sided, and I know the deep pain and sadness you are feeling, but it will go away if you move on with your life. If you stay in contact with these people however, it will be very difficult to let it go.
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