| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: I am currently in a relationship. It's been 10 months now, and I still think about my ex. I can't get over him no matter how much I try. I love him so much and I don't knwo what to do about it. I still compare my new man to my ex and I just don't think he measures up to him. The man I am with though would do anything for me. I also do love him, but its not the same kind of love. I know I will never find another love like the relationship I am currently in but how do I get rid of my feelings for my ex boyfriend? Please help me or I am going to mess up on a good thing. I just want the feelings and the momories to go away because I know its not fair for my current relationship. Thank you for listening and your responses, it means a lot!
View related questions:
my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2005): I dont know the situation to which why you guys broke up in the first place. But because you still think about him and love him im guessing it was a bad relationship. I think your tryin to aviod the person you really want to be with.......
If you say its not the same love then it was with ur ex... you shouldnt continue with ur current realtionship and try to rekindle the things with your ex
A
female
reader, flipchickmom +, writes (20 October 2005):
I have been there, it's an inevitable stage where you sort of obsess about the ex for a while. Depending on the degree of intensity in the relationship, the longer it takes to get over. You need to take time for yourself and nurture your inner soul. You will be no good to this terrific guy if you don't work on yourself. May I suggest you make a list of other areas in your life besides relationships that need improving? For example, Career and Health. In the meantime, by honest with this new man and tell him your intentions and if he still sticks around, then he is definitely the one for you and by then you would have most likely be over your ex. Good luck and Be strong.
...............................
|
