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writes:I love my girlfriend to an extent where i have sacrificed my friends, likings, studies, though she didn't expect me to do so. she wanted to me to be myself. Now i have lost myself only thing i am doing is thinking about her, her safety and worry but she enjoys life with friends,studies,etc.. help me to find myself... Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (12 August 2007):
 Hi
Its never good to put all your eggs into one basket & not have much contact with friends. I have done the same thing with all the guys ive been with. Not saying they made me like that, it kind of ended up happening naturally. I think i was just that type of person that got so into whoever i was with.
But i know its not a good idea. Its healthier for a relationship if you keep contact with your friends & go out seperately now n then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Mandy,i appreciated ur advice alot. As u have said i have already started to concentrate on my studies.hope I will make it. Thanks alot...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2007): Hi sweetheart,
You have to get your life back on track, start by doing something other than worrying about your girlfriend, you love her but your life doesnt stop because you love someone... Your relationship is it a good one you dont really say it sounds like you have focussed on her so much that you forgot about you, If everything is good then whats to worry about...
You need some you time start giving this to yourself by finding your intersests again, and contact a friend someone who you can talk to. Try and get back to what you used to like doing one day at a time love you sound depressed, When I feel this way I read, self help books are a great way of giving you back the confidence you loose for awhile they just put back information which you probably already no but have lost along the way giving yourself a boost to start somewere....
And start thinking about your studies again, it will take time but have some faith in you as a person and you will find yourself again, You sound like a very caring person you just need to care for you as well hunny, I hope this helped a little TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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