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writes:So I've been dating this guy for 5 months, and even though some will say its too soon, im in love! I believe in love at first sight and thats kind of how i would describe it. We spend alot of time together, and when we feel that we are spending to much time together we go a few days apart. Things usually always work out for the better for us, but lately it hasn't. He has gotten really bi-polar nd its a major turn off. but we have such a deep connection that honestly no one but us can understand, and so even when he treats me like shit and i brake down in tears, as soon as he apologizes i take him back. Its starting to become a routine, and im sick of it. I want out but i can't seem to leave. Not for good anyways. He use to be the sweetest person i knew, and at times he still is. He's not abusive although i think he is on the verge of becoming so. I just love him so much, and im so young. i have a whole lifetime to find that perfect somebody, but as of now, he's all i got. i really dont know what to do anymore. continue to love him and be here, even though i feel as if im fallin out of it, or to just leave before things get worse? HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2011): I had a problem like this myself, but not on such alarge scale. But i am helpful to you because i was in your boyfs position. I treated my boyf like shit, and when i snapped at him, i immediately apologised and felt awful. I knew there was something wrong with me, so i went to see the doctor and i got some help. Now my relationship is back to what it was.If he wants the relationship to continue, he needs professional help, or even a counsellor. But if he becomes abusive, refuses help or to change, you have to grit your teeth, and do the difficult,but right thing, and leave him. I'm sorry, but you cant be happy with him if he keeps going on like this x
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