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*lawson1188
writes:So here's the story. I've been friends with a guy for four years now -- hes my best friend. We moved in together almost 2 years ago now and we have a great relationship. Just this past November, he dumped his girlfriend of 3 years because he wanted to be single for a while. Yea right. So he starts seeing this girl. (in November) Shes a spitfire this one. She was still seeing her boyfriend of 5 years when this whole thing started. She told my friend she was done with him. There were times when she would leave here, and go straight to the other guys house, and vice versa. There have been multiple occasions that she has told my friend she is not going to see the other guy anymore (as recent as last week) and she has gone and begged the other guy to come back -- and slept with him 3 times just last week! My friend is being VERY ignorant of this whole situation. Throughout the five years she was with the other guy this girl has hooked up with 54 guys, myself included. All on the pretense that her boyfriend was aweful and treated her badly. Yea...right. I know my friend doesnt love her, hes told me over and over that he would never be with a girl like this...hell...when I had a thing for her, all he could do was tell me how awful she was and what a terrible idea it would be.I do not want my friend to fall into the same trap and I see it happening. How do I get through to him? She has lied to him, cheated on him, and decieved him more than normal people do in a lifetime all in the last couple of months. Help me save my friend!
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