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writes:Hey I am in need of a bit of helpI am staying on till 6th year but I am in 5th year, all my friends have had sexual intercourse and done lots of other things with boys and their bits and bobs.I am scared of mostly the disgustingness of a guys p****sI feel ashamed that I am 16 and I have never seen a mans p****s unless it is on television.All my friends have had sex and I feel left out when half of them are 2 to 3 years below me which is very shameful, please give me your advice please!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (30 November 2007):
I totally agree with missmel34.When you become sexually active at a tender age and keep it up,you are really draining the sexual energy meant to be shared with a very special person.I also remember girls who used to turn me down in high school because they thought they are too "hot" for me.If you see them now,they look decades older than me.In short,the longer you take to start having sex,the more your husband will appreciate you.Don't mind those friends of yours and i would suggest you find others who don't treasure sex so much.
All the best.
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reader, missmel34  +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Hey there,
I was 19 when I lost my virginity. At 16 I was the same as you, very nervous about sex. But, you know, now I look back at it, it was really a confidence thing. Some girls mature more quickly, and are more confident in their own skin. Its easy for everyone to tell you to relax and not to worry about it, you've got plenty of time. But theres alot of peer pressure from friends at your age.
Try not to let them get to you. I will tell you something, I occasionally bump into these girls that gave me a hard time, they are frumpy and old looking now. The girls who were late bloomers generally grow into gorgeous, stunning and very sexy women!
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reader, YoungLost  +, writes (30 November 2007):
listen, first of all dont rush yourself. if you are ready you are ready but make sure you are. your virginity is a very very important thing. make sure you have found a good boy that you most importantly trust. if you feel you are ready than good luck. other than that dont worry and dont feel left out they probably regreted their first time anyway. goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): You're 16. Not 30.
You have plenty of time to find yourself in some crazy situations.
A man's penis is never like it is on Porn films. Not a single man is over 8 inches tops without surgery or being a freak of nature.
Most men are not shave down there either (it is considered kinda gay to wax or shave) so expect that.
But there is always just turning the light off. Just try not to freak too much because most are not exactly nice to look at. But when you're in the mood it won't matter.
Don't feel left out, you sound like a lovely girl, and soon enough you'll find a guy (or girl if you end up going that way) that will care for you more than as a sex tool. Just make sure you're first time is memorable and never have sex whilst drunk... its never fun.
Best of luck to you.
Flynn 24
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reader, honkifuluvnicole +, writes (30 November 2007):
 I think you are embarrassed because you are the only virgin,
but sweetie, here's the thing. YOU are the smart one!!!
Seriously, the fact that you have held out and not gone there yet is really respectable. I really respect all my friends that are virgins.
Take pride in it!!! Don't feel ashamed, or down about it. Because one day you will lose it to someone you really love and care about, and not regret it. While Im sure a lot of your friends DO regret it.
Stay strong and keep your head up.:]
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