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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone! Ok so I met this guy at a mall and we got talkin,and that went on for a few days after which we exchanged numbers..so he asked me out on a date he really liked me..and then we went out had dinner it was fun,he dint want to drop me back home..so after that he took me to the beach we were sitting in the car talkin and he kissed me so we had an make out session,he wanted to do more but I dint let him so all we did was make out..but its then I realised that I dint really love him and that's y I stopped him..so I told him I had a bf and shld let me go!so even to this day I feel guilty abt making out with me cuz that's not me I don't make out with random guys!I feel disgusted abt myself!how do I get rid of this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): Right it off as just another life experiance and stop beating yourself up,your being abit harsh on yourself.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 So first of DID you have a BF at the time or was that your "excuse" to not go any further?
If you do/did have a BF you need to stop yourself from exchanging numbers, be upfront right of the bat that you are in a relationship. Then not go out on dinners or be alone with random guys, that is pretty simple. OWN your actions.
If you didn't/don't have a BF. I think it's kinda natural wanting the attention and affection from someone. But you need to stay safe. You really didn't know this guy and things could have gone way out of hand real easy. Take it slow when you meet a guy. And stop feeling guilty. A good SNOG, as the British call it, is good for you now and then. You knew it wasn't what you wanted and you stopped. That is a good thing, you are learning your own boundaries and limits. Now you jsut need to learn how to stay safe.
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