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writes:Hey all, my boyf of 6 months finished with me as he said he couldn't cope with me being depressed.basically i have been off work for 6 weeks as i hate my job and have been looking for a new one.my doc signed me off for one more week, my boyf went mad saying i was taking the p*ss out of the system" and "how can we have a future if you will be off work for weeks at a time" i was really hurt by this as i am just a little lost at the moment.we have no financial committments, although i had a key to his house and stayed often, i had no plans to move in until i found my feet with work again.he says he loves me but can't see us having a future, he says his head says no?when i went to get my things from his he confused me more, saying "i think i have shot myself in the foot letting you go" and "i miss you" but made no attempt to reconcilate? should i call him or text to see if he does want me back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi all, well, i text him, we met up and we went back out for a week then he dumped me again!! more fool me :( he said he never gave me a chance and loved me still, his reason for ending it again was that the magic had gone and he blamed me for this! since then we met up and he said he wants to be good mates with me - but we ended up having sex, which was great but its clear thats all he wants.
i text him after saying that i can;t be mates as i have feelings for him - well surprise surpise he has not text me back at all :( so i am a glutton for punishment.
he has taken advantage of me, buts it my fault. worse thing is i love him! and can't get him out my head :( any tips for forgetting him?? its driving me mad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): When a man loves you...even just a bit...he isn't going to up and leave you. Seeing that you guys were only together for six months...he probably doesn't feel all that attached to you. I suggest you reading a book called "Why Men Love Bitches." This should give you some insight on how a woman can hold her own in a relationship and GET the relationship that she truly deserves.
Do not call this guy to see if he wants you back!!! PLEASE DON'T DO THAT. You will come off as deseperate and even if he does come back to you, he is more likely to take advantage of you and use your life as a revolving door. He isn't going to respect you in the long run and will leave you again for a much stronger woman who will not allow him to run all over her.
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