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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I recently started dating a wonderful man, he's everything I could have ever hoped for. And here's the kicker he seems crazy about me too! Last week however we ran into his ex whose "very" pregnant but unsure of who the father is. And yes my man is one of the possibilities. I feel so helpless in this situation. I'm crazy bout him but I've only known him a month! I don't want to throw this away...but were not even official yet. It seems silly to be so worried when he's not even my boyfriend...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2009): At your age there are so many other men to choose from, why would you want to settle for only this one guy who sounds like he has some pretty serious issues going on. Date some other men, too, and take your focus off of him and his problems....it is not yours to deal with.
Great you like him, just don't invest everything in him as he doesn't sound like a good bet for a serious relationship. Just enjoy his company, dating is supposed to be fun and it is a way for us to find out who is right for us, so date some other guys and give yourself some other options....he hasn't made a commitment to you and definately not to her, so it may be that he won't settle down with you either, regardless of whether the child is his or not, he is not the settling down kind.
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