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writes: what do you do when you want to have sex with a guy but you think your fat and that is keeping you from doing it. I need help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, fifi +, writes (30 January 2006):
Hi,Think about most men you know. They're pretty angular and hard-bodied people with muscle and bones and funny rough hairy bits! The vast majority want something that is the opposite - a lovely soft, smooth curvy woman to get their hands on! They don't care what you look like naked, they are only hoping and praying that you will take your clothes off and they can watch! Men have their own body worries too, and while you're worrying what your thighs look like he's probably concentrating on holding his stomach in and hasn't even noticed your "fat bits" at all. Word of warning though, sex is something that you should do with someone you love to express the depth of your feeling for them. It should not be chucked away on riff raff. Don't have sex with someone just to say you've done it. Have sex with someone because you love them and they make you feel like the most beautiful girl in the world. When you meet that man, cellulite and fat will be the last things on your mind. Enjoy!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2006): i felt the same as you did once but i found the right man and and i found it didn't bother me there is no rush to have sex you need to feel comfortable with him and yourelf before you do anythin. once you feel comfortable with yourself you will be happy to have sex with him without this worry
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2006): no one is to fat 2 have sex! most guys love curves and dont like the twig like models from the runway. Good luck!
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