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female
age
30-35,
*ovesagiftkeepitsafe
writes:me and my bf have been close lately considering what we have been through recently n hes tryed to put my feelings first but ive noticed that hes slipping back to his old ways, going out all the time and coming home drunk, only tells me he loves me when we are having sex, he dont text me much these days and hes also started to be exactly how we used to be before we ended up almost splitting up. Ive talked to him and he said nothings changed but hes has changed and he never askes how i am any more. im having problems at home and normaly he would be the first one id turn to for advice but i dont feel like i can talk to him. please give me some advice on what to do about it all im confused i dont even know why hes changed so suddernly, ive asked him if theres any thing wrong or if ive done somthing but he said hes fine. i love him so much but i just feel like its only one way now.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 From what you have written it sounds to me it is only one way, he tried to change, persumably because you have discussed his behaviour before, but he hasnt changed.
You now need to decide if this is what you want for the rest of your life, and how you will cope having a partner that you cannot turn to for help, advise and love.
The ball is in your court, what are you going to do with it?
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