A
female
age
30-35,
*A19
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years.. he loves me a lot and I love him too. but my problem is that we have been trying to have sex since 6 months but we could not have.(not every day of course) I am a virgin and he is very experienced. I like making out with him , I get aroused when he caresses me but when ever he tries putting it inside me i feel too much of pain.. He has been very understanding and stops when ever I start screaming out of pain and say NO.. He has never forced me. He says that I am wet enough to have penetration but I do not know why I feel too much pain. He says for me to relax and just let it go... but I am always confused what to do.. I just lay there not knowing what to do... I feel bad for him.. It may be so frustrating for him as a man... I think I am not normal... I feel bad for myself... Reply to this Question
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (9 March 2010):
 Make an appointment with a female gynecologist. You have vaginisms - involuntary constriction of the muscles surrounding your vagina. Seek professional help.
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