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anonymous
writes:I'm 23 had a baby 5 months ago to start of my sex drive was their but now it's not. I'm working so am always tied to do it then when i do i get to wet and it puts me off. How do I get my sex drive back????????
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): Congrats on the baby! As wonderful as it, having a baby is a huge life adjustment and can lead to tiredness, low selfesteem and lack of sexdrive.
Firstly i think you need to treat yourself! Buy yourself some new sexy underwear, or some nice jewellery or something that makes you feel confident. Look at yourself and appreciate what you have, your body, your hips, your fertility!
The more confident you feel about yourself, the more your sex drive will increase.
Take a night out with friend/partner, get a babysitter or such for a night. Go for a romantic meal or go to the cinema or something.
Your confidence will sparkle and your sex drive increase. However why dont you try taking a risk and watch a pornmovie, or try a new position, or even go to buy a sextoy.
Experimenting and risk taking can increase the adrenaline and therefore your sexdrive is going to be pumping!
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