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age
41-50,
*alentinesxxx
writes:Hi Guys, can i pls ask for your crucial advice.. I met a local guy who was chasing me on facebook over xmas. After around a month of talking we met up. We knew we liked each other. We continue to date. On our second date we became intimate. following this i had to resist any further temptations to become initimate as i knew i really liked him. he told me he wanted us to see things through. Things started to drift and he started blowing hot and cold and stopping texting and calling. He intially would call and text me weekly, and resond to me. but then when i would call he would answer but when i texted he would not reply. he would say he would call later and not call. we wouldnt see each for weeks. i really fell for him and so called him up on this a few times asking 'wats up'. he would avoid answering. i got really fed up and asked him to 'grow some balls'and tell me wats up or im gone. he replied by calling, but i hung the phone up on him as i thought he probably feed me some bullshit excuse. anyways two weeks goes by and we dont text or call each other (by the way it was my birthday during this time and he knew i was going away for the weekend with the girls). he then calls. he was really nice to me asking me how i was, and how work is. i ask him when we are going to see each other again. he tells me we would meet up when i finish work and to call him. i call no several times. no answer. i text several times no answer. i tell him, i always liked him and never stopped thinking off him. im sorry for hanging the phone up on him. his behaviour appears childish for a grown man (we are both in our 30's). Its been over a week and i havnt heard from him. WHY IS HE DOING THIS?
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 he's stupid, that's why. he's all about the chase and the chase only. you are better off without him.
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reader, BriBri +, writes (22 May 2011):
He's saying its over.
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