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writes:Help, ive never had a bf before then early November i meet a really nice guy it made me feel special having someone actually like me he was older then me by 10 years very popular and had 3 children which i exepted as i love kids although i never meet them i had seen pictures of them,anyway i thought this relationsip would last longer then it did as he said he was lonely,cut a long story short i stayed round his house a few times and even tho we had no sex as i wasnt ready and i had not told him i was a virgin making out i had slept with people b4 him, all he kept saying was he was really frustrated and that he was beginning to feel really dirty that he was doing things and that i wasnt in a way i was scared incase i did anything wrong,the last time i stayed over his house he tried again but i said i didnt want to get his hopes up anyway he stoped, nxt morning i asked if i could come round again he said yes, but i never did as we split up in middle december a few days after,he left me heartbroken. why did he make such an effort to tell me about his kids and make the first move on seeing me did he really like me?i think he did which is making me really bad for not doing things or making more effort,the think is he didnt want to talk after and ive not spoken to him since did i really upset him that much please please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2008): I agree totally with 'Geeo'. He should have been willing to wait for when you were ready, and he clearly wasn't. This seems shallow, and you deserve much more than a guy like him. Wait for someone that is willing to wait for you, and cares more about you than about sex. Good luck :]
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reader, Geeo +, writes (13 February 2008):
I'm going to be rather blunt here but I expect you want the truth and by the sounds of it this guy was only after one thing sex and because you didn't give him it he broke it off and the reason for him telling you about his kids was simply to get you into bed and if he really loved you and wanted your relationship to work then he would have waited until you were ready to take the next step. So trust me you have nothing to feel bad about he's just scum and remember theres plenty more fish in the sea...
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