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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:It appears to me that my ex husband and my good friend are having a relationship together but hiding it. I had heard through others about it. I haven't approached them and I know that I can't stop them but how do you handle this situation?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (14 June 2011):
 He is nowyour ex, so whom he dates shouldn't be any of your concern. However, I think it's a little low of your friend to not give you a heads up.
Not really the kind of friend I would want around.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (13 June 2011):
 Ignore it. He is not your husband any more. He has a right to date whoever he wants.
Let the "good friend" speak up. If it gets serious, they will go public.
How you handle it is moving on with YOUR life, and living your life well. Occupy yourself with hobbies and people that make you happy.
Best Wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2011): I wouldn't be too chuffed about that either. For me it would be grounds to dissolve the friendship.
The fact that others have have noticed and commented on it means they aren't being very discreet. I would not ask either of them anything. I would simply tell them (or at least your friend) what I'd heard, what I thought about it and that if what I'd heard was true it would jeopardize our friendship. Then I'd let her chew on that. In the meantime I would start distancing myself.
This is very low class of both of them. Even if the friend did break up with him, I wouldn't see her in the same light anymore.
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