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writes:I'm in a serious relationship..or we say it is.. we talk of it being forever yet he is unable to touch me.. we hold hands.. sleep in the same bed.. but there is no sexual attraction.. none from him.. he's rejected my moves for six months now and so I have reached the point where I now no longer feel anything toward him sexually... I feel so disspondant and don't know what to do...How can I get our sex life to happen again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007): I see that you had sex early on, but you don't say what it was like. Did he get an erection or maintain that erection long enough to bring you to an orgasm? Lots of us men have a deep seated anxiety about our penises becoming erected,or staying erected long enough to bring a woman to a climax. ED isn't something to be ashamed of, as it happens to men at all ages. And men at 70 years of age, ED runs at 7o% Erection- failure. Me, I'm touching 80 years young, So my sexuality is far from what I would like it to be. However as my wife belongs to the "One Out Of Three Club". Where only one woman out of three can have an orgasm with Penile-Vaginal-Intercourse. Even if I got it up or could keep it up until the cows came home. She wouldn't have an orgasm, for her it takes Direct Clitoral-Stimulation to have her orgasm, or 2 or 3 or more. "AND ORGASM IS AN ORGASM IS AN ORGASM",In men or women. How the orgasm is induced really doesn't matter. And my Eleven other penises, Eight fingers,two thumbs and best of all my warm,wet stiff tongue they never let either of us down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007): does he even kiss you, have you seen him at all more sexual in about anything [porn?]Sounds to me like there is seriously something wrong, maybe like a molestation/sex abuse when he was younger, maybe performance anxiety, ED, or finishing problems, waiting til he was married????? i'd really ask him what he's waiting for, obviously in a less confrontational way, try to not be the bad guy about something that could end up being a sensitive subject.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2007): I think this man has another woman on the side. If he's sexually rejecting you, he may be getting it from some where else.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Wow.
If he rejects your moves, I don't think there is much you can do. I suppose you have tried asking him what is going on.
If I were you, I would deal with this right away. If he won't give a satisfactory answer, well, I think you would need to leave him.
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