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writes: My ex fiance used to never go down on me, but always demanding and asked that I go down on him. He always said that he was waiting until marriage to go down on a girl. We had sex, but I was always trying to wait until marriage but he made me feel guilty saying that if I didn't sleep with him I must not love him or I must be cheating. Anyway, I didn't go down on him that many times because it felt weird that he wouldn't do the same to me. Anyway, why did he behave that way? He said he had only done that once before with a girl he dated a long time. Do you think he was just scared he wouldn't do it right or that he thought it was gross? Because he did mention once that it's slimey and gross down there on girls, but not on guys.
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 he's being very very selfish, tell him if he doesn't go down on you, you won't go down on him!
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reader, hello1 +, writes (26 November 2007):
 This guy dosen't seem great overall, he dosen't respect your wishes for no sex till marriage and playing mind games with you. He may be gay, how does he know guys are better than girls down there? You never should have gone down on him, you should have refused and want fair game in he goes down on you as well.
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reader, bad_desires  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 i think maybe h is grossed out but truth is girls are way more sanitary if you know what i'm saying but if i was in that position i would tell him the same thing he told you and see the way he reacts and then when you get the reaction and then talk to him about it...
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