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writes: dear cupid,There's this guy ive known for practically my entire life but we weren't close or anything. At some point though,i had a crush on him but i was around 11 n he was like 14 not to mention hot n quite popular with girls,so he as always outta my league.Recently,the beginning of the year,we came across each other n had a normal conversation, now we've been talkin since then.hes really flirty with me n i obviously flirt back.I really like him n he's been hinting that he kinda likes me too.but recently, hes been acting really weird like hes avoiding me,he just brushes off conversations when i try to talk to him n stuff and al the flirting has gone with the relative 'closeness' we had. I try to be mad and stay mad at him when he just tosses me aside but its really hard.i say im not gonna call but at the end of the day i cant help it.I know i probably makes me look weak n desperate.....i am!he's got some kinda hold on me or something.What do i do?
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reader, damagincutie +, writes (22 April 2006):
damagincutie is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey,its me again...well i talked to the guy.i didnt exactly ask if hew as interested or not like u suggested,i just asked him whats been goin on.he says its just that hes been really busy with school n stuff and apologised.we start talkin again.everythings cool.hes flirting n stuff.then he starts talkin about how he wud like to 'do things' with me n stuff like that.but not once has he mentioned a relationship.so im beginnin to think that he only wants to sleep with me...which sucks cuz i really like him n want to have a relationship with him.if he tries or asks me to sleep with him,do i do it???im only 14.maybe if i do he'll want a relationship.help...........
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (18 April 2006):
It seems to me you still have feelings for this guy and in some way or another have hope inside that something could happen between the 2 of you. And its pretty hard to move on from someone when they havent exactly given you a clear answerer whether or not the yare interested. I think what you need to do here, is for your own sake get some 'closure', this means hearing from HIS mouth that he is either interested or not in you. There might be very many signs hes not, like hes ignoring you but for someone who is crushing over a guy, its hard t otake those signs into accoutn, you still hold some hope. So ask him straight out if hes interested or not. Then if he says yes, well then thats awesome, but if he says no ,then thats ok too. That way you will get the closure you need.
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