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He went soft for a brief period during unprotected sex.. then he said it felt like he hadn't come.

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Question - (25 July 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 July 2008)
A female Australia age 36-40, *essie Jay writes:

Hey guys,

Ok, so here it is. My partner and I had unpretected sex last night and usualy we use the "pull out method' which i know is risky blah blah blah not looking for a lecture on that. But last night, he said during sex for a very brief period for some reason his penis went soft. He said it didnt feel like he came, but neither of us understood. I know it's possible, but it dosnt necessarily mean....right? also just wondering - just in case, most home tests are only 5-7 days after, are there any that detect earlier?

thank you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008):

Yep!! I learned something new from that video too, and did you check out that girls dress... LOL. Education is always better when it makes you laugh.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (25 July 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntTisha, that video was the bomb. Planned Parenthood is amazing, and this video is a perfect example of why. Even I learned a little something new!!

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A female reader, Nessie Jay Australia +, writes (25 July 2008):

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Hey one more question. Say, it did happend - and it is at the stage where it hasnt reached yet, will one or two drinks hurt it do you think? pretty sure your going to recomend not drinking till I know for sure, but just wondering if you had any more fancy advice? hehe. Ps Im not an alcoholic or anything, just enjoy casual drinks is all, and if I knew I would not even consume one alcoholic beverage so please dont feel low about me. Just wondering about he science of it is all.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (25 July 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntI know what you mean about feeling like a kid again in sex ed class. But I learned things from the video too, and I thought I was fairly well-educated about this subject! So I'm glad it helped.

Take care.

And please do reconsider unprotected sex, it'll save you a lot of worry and heartache and possibly keep you from getting pregnant or contracting an infection.

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A female reader, Nessie Jay Australia +, writes (25 July 2008):

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Thanks so much. I felt like a school kid again watching this video but its fantastic and call me nieve but I realy wasnt aware of this information! Also how fantastic are the characteristics of those cartoons? Fantastic! But on a more serious note, I honestly mean it. Thanks so much. If nothing more, at least I understand the process now!

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (25 July 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntI can't answer the going soft part of the question, but I think I can help with the earlier detection of pregnancy one. If the egg is fertilized in the fallopian tubes, it takes a couple of days for it to then move down into the uterus and implant itself there. Only when it is implanted do the hormones that indicate pregnancy begin to be released and therefore detectable.

Have a look at this informative video.

http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html

People who use the pullout method generally will be parents earlier than the ones who use more reliable methods. Saves a lot of money on home pregnancy tests too.

Take care.

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