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writes: I found a new guy recently and when we first met, he made me laugh so much that i was straight away attracted to him because of his personality. He didn't ask me out until 2 weeks ago and afterwards we kissed but then i found out he was going to see his parents and sort out some family issue for 2 months and its only been 2 weeks he's been away. He asked me to wait for him and i said yes. But my problem is, there was a guy i was attracted to before him, i knew there was no chance of anything developing between us which is why i tried so hard to move on and i thought i had but this last couple of days has had me twisted badly. I know i am very stupid cos this is not really a dilemma, i like him but he doesn't, the other guy likes me and i like him too but i'm more attracted to the first one and i want that by the time the second one arrives, thoughts of the first one should have evaporated from my mind but i'm finding it really hard as we share a flat together therefore i see him everyday. I'm contemplating moving away or going to stay with a friend til uni starts and afterwards i know uni will keep me busy. Advice me please
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reader, xAngeliquex  +, writes (15 August 2006):
 Hi x
This is never a good situation for girls - having to choose. I think moving away temporarily would be a step in the right direction if you would like to move on from him, as it would be virtually impossible to move on if you see him all the time.
The guy that's gone .. you seem to have a much better chance of happiness with him as he likes you and has an attractive personality and makes you laugh. This other guy, on the other hand, does not have these feelings for you and if, one day, something happened between you and him, chances are he's only it it for the fun. Plus if your bf found out, you would be left with no one then, you know what I mean? (Not saying this WILL happen, just an example)
This other guy doesn't seem worth bothering over in my opinion. Your boyfriend should be the one you choose, because of the way he makes you feel. Please do not give in to any form of temptation while he is away.
I hope this helps..x
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