A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I Have been with my Boyfriend for over a year now,i am 4 months pregnant, we are looking for a place to live together, we are on the council housing list but it will take months even a couple of years to get one, a few weeks ago he applied for some apartments to rent monthly (not on the council list just private rent), they all got back to him and asked for a viewing but now all of a sudden he doesn't want to view them and said we are better off waiting on the council list, now i feel like he is making excuses and that he doesn't want to live with me, it was his idea in the first place, not mine. is it because he is just worried about paying the rent monthly? he has a good job and earns money, i myself no longer have a job they fired me as soon as i told them im pregnant and every job i have applied for say no because im pregnant, i feel like im letting him and the baby down because i cant bring my own money in to help.
View related questions:
money Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): I think you're jumping to an unfounded conclusion about this. Your hormones are going crazy and so you're bound to be overly emotional right now. Talk to him about it. Find out what's really going on. You two need to communicate if your relationship is going to be successful!
Good luck with everything. I hope the pregnancy goes well.
A
female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (24 May 2010):
 There could be a misunderstanding here. It could be that those private rentals were too expensive for his liking and he may have second thoughts about renting one.
It is not about not wanting to stay with you .
Being pregnant is a very difficult time for all and you should not stress yourself about not working or helping him out financially.
I am sure he will be able to take care of you and the baby. Children are a blessings from God and He will provide the way .
Try to think in a more positive way.
...............................
|
