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writes: Why does he say one thing and do another?When I met Jay we both fell in love. We had the best time of our lives together. Laughing, joking, and it was always a very loving reletionship. We had got engaged and we stared to make a family by having a dog as I moved in to his flat. At some point I needed space from him because we both lost our jobs and we started to get at each other. I moved out and stayed at my parents' for a few days. I explained to him why I did it and we agreed it was so we could not wreck what we had. That's when it started, he started becoming too busy to see me and then eventually he came round to tell me months later that he wasn't ready for a relationship and he was moving into a house. He was devastated as much as I was. A few weeks later I found out off his cousin he had been seeing a girl behind my back and he was moving into his new house with her. I felt my heart break. He still texted me saying he loved me when I asked him after but I rang her to ask her if it was true and she agreed. He kept telling my family he still loved me and kept in touch. He still doesn't know what he wants to this day, but i feel he is toying with my feelings.
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reader, fikitty +, writes (26 April 2005):
1. He is not ready to be engaged (married).2. He is unsure of his feelings about you, his new move-in girlfriend, and probably himself, his future jobs, his life.Feel relaxed all this happened before you got married and try to accept it and prepare yourself for a better partner/marriage. Losing a job is a huge problem to face and an issue that will come around anytime and to be able to deal with it (yourself, partner or both) will show how each of you can maturedly handle the stress in and out of the relationship.Good luck to both of you.
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