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female
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writes:right, ive fancied this boy for 3 years. since year 7 at school. and at the end of year 8 he started to like me back and we kind of had a secret relationship on MSN. we couldnt tell anyone as his friends didnt like me. around 3 months ago (we are both in year 9 at school now) we decided to go out properly and let people know. we had a great relationship and he gave me my first kiss. we were so in love. after about 2 months he started to annoy me. he didnt mean to, but he just did, by doing things like arranging to meet me and then just talking to other people and forgetting i was there. i thought to myself "right, ive had enough" so a couple of weeks ago i started to act a bit moody and not talk much to him just to show him how it felt. he got confused and didnt know wether he loved me anymore. and now i feel it's all my fault cos' if i had't acted moody then none of this would have happened. he says he dosn't know if he loves me and he's started to be a bit mean and seems irritated by me. i love him too much to dump him, but i will be just as upset if he dumps me. my 3 years of trying to get him to love me seems a waste. i feel to upset and can't stop crying. what shall i do?
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (3 July 2007):
 Tit-for-tat very rarely works out and here is a case of that! If he dumps you now then there isn't much you can do about it but try and talk to him. He can't string you along if he doesn't know whether he loves you or not. Apologise for the way you acted! Because you did purposely act the way you did and see what he says.
Only time will tell.
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