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writes: is it normal for someone to act like they really like a person and then just a few days later stop? I've been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks and everything was really good and then all of a sudden he got weird. I have this feeling like he met someone else, but if you act like you really like someone can you just suddenly get feelings for someone you just met and not care about the person you were already with? Reply to this Question
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reader, DEBS83  +, writes (27 July 2006):
 first id talk to him as 3 weeks isnt a real long time maybe he did like you at first but as the weeks have past hes relised he dosent i would ask him what he wants and if you do belive that hes met somone else also ask him that
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2006): Please tell me you didn't sleep with him! Because I want to tell you to cut your losses here, hun and bail with your dignityand your pride, intact. Yes, feelings do flux and change from one day to the next in the harsh world of dating. When a guy wants to be with a woman, he will do anything and I mean anything--to be with her. This guy is not doing that. I would say listen to you instincts-they are there to protect you. This guy is giving you a clear sign he's not interested. Better now, than 6 month to a year down the road. All you had with him anyways, was an infatuation. A real binding love takes a long time to grow and is kind, caring, and protective. Love involves being cherished. These things were not in the relationship you had with this young man, simply because you only invested 3 weeks in this short relationship. Don't take it to heart because for every rejection in life's road..a new path of opportunity opens up for you, meaning that you will meet someone who is right just for you and there are many decent guys out there. Now...face this loss, recover and go find a great guy! Good luck dear.
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