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36-40,
*anillafrost
writes:Dear all. My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me today cuz we fight too much. He thinks im too jealous and doesnt want to be with me no matter how much i pleaded.. He was so cold and indifferent. Before he used to cryi send him an email after i left:I will miss you very much. Please remember our good times together How we held each other and hung out, laughed about anything silly while doing nothing really on the couch :) I was your babietje/corazonnetje who loved smelling on you, no matter what happened, I stayed with you through goods and bads. I really gave you every inch of my heart. YOU KNOW that I love you so much and you oved me very very much also but you are right for breaking up for all the reasons.. I will be a better person as every person will learn from their mistakes. :) I want to thank you very everything you've done I am moving on I sincerely wish you the best in your life please take good care of yourself, eat healthy and be careful not to overwork yourself baby... I believe you will move up in your carreer and have a great life.He answered:I think everything you say is true, it's also hard for me/us i cant cry but i will when im home and read this letter again I wish thing were differently,but its fine to hear that u understand me and its the best for both of us. I also miss you already,but for now this the best what we can do This just ashort note i have to go meeting nowWhat do you think? he acted so cold and now this? Whn i was still with him he said that he doesnt want me ever whn i was crying. Whn i left he kissed me goodbye?
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reader, MugenTj  +, writes (18 July 2011):
 IN my experience, when you are in a bad relationship due to any factor, try not to be emotional in order to think what is best for the both of you. IN this case the guy already want to break up. That's what matter! Do not try to guess a guy's emotion based on expressions (words can be misleading as well.) But from the look of it, since he decide to end it, he has the resolution not to be emotional about it.
In his email, he is trying to say he is glad that you understand and will be able to move on. He also mention he already misses you (due to how emotional you are, the guy has a soft side) but that wont change anything.
Be strong and be ready to renew your life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011): Hey there,Just be happy about this and look at it as an opportunity to move on. If you guys were already fighting too much after only 10 months, it wasn't meant to be anyway.Oh, and don't get into the whole "I still miss you even though I know we can't be together", - it's simply a recipe for disaster!
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