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He was cheated on and now I am paying for loving him.

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Question - (20 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *amilia_santiago writes:

I am 18 and my ex bf (now we're talking again) he is 28.

He is so insecure he always believe I am with someone. i am in PA and he is in Puerto Rico. when i was over in puerto rico he was always cheking my phone he was always calling me and all (been very posesive ) well he domped me because he wanted to be with his ex zuly. so he calls me and say that. in 30 ins later he calls me again after i cursed him out. he says we need to talk. he tells me i am sorry sherley for doing that to you , i fell again she lied to me she was still with her bf. i was like you see after you leave me you relize that she no good.he said yeah i am sorry and give me a chance i said ok then he dumps me cuz of my past.

5 months passed. We saw each other again we hung out and fucked, then after 2 weeks he says he wants to be friends. I said okay. fuck you. 2 weeks passed. I was one day for me to depart from puerto rico and he comes and tell me he sorry for what he did to me for making me cry and hurt me he was very sirious and all. then he said i saw my ex and she told me to move on to look for you and be happy cuz you will make e happy. i was like now you relize now that i am leaving. he game me a big kiss and made a hicky. He said I ma miss you and call me when you get there.

I got to PA and he was calling me, been so nice saying he missed me he loves me and after 2 weeks he changes everything, started to think I had someone tell me that if I am busy, that he needs to take his time and now he be happy one day and just the other day be an ass. What I do I love him so much that I all do anything. I tried to leave him but every time I do he calls me and say what's wrong with me that why am I saying that if I have someone.

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A female reader, familia_santiago United States +, writes (22 January 2009):

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familia_santiago agony auntwell i love him so much. i tryed to forget about him but i cant. i beleave ppl change and he will end up trusting me but if he dont i ma get tired or trying. right now he is very defferent and thats pissing me off. so soon or later i ma stop talking to him cuz i told him once that is over but he dont want to stop talking to me. i am just in a posistion that is very tireding and i know in about 5 onths he dont change i am done if he comes to PA to me and he ready then let it be but if he is not ready and he not wiling to change i cant be there stuck for long

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