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female
age
51-59,
*indyNCarolina
writes:hi im 44 year old female ... i've been living with a guy for 3 years now..about a year ago i found text messages to and from a female coworker.he apparently was interested in..i confronted him about the text and although i was devastated i chose to forgive him and try to move forward with our lives. about two weeks ago i found pics of local women on his flash drive.. i again confronted him about that. he said they were pics that a friend sent him.. a guy friend from work he claims. honestly i feel he's lying.. this coming up weekend he wants to take me down to beach for the weekend to christmas shop as well as catch a christmas show. problem is im not sure if he wants to take me because he wants that quality time or if he has met someone online that plans to be at this beach and show as well.. i dont know what to do..if i ask him if thats his motive for going he will swear im accusing him and we will end up arguing..please advise as to how to handle this.. he does have a history of doing this type of things.... signed scared in NC
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2009): you know as well as we do he is a lying little rat. take it from experience... he is not that into you. he is taking his time and telling you its all good while looking at and for other women. what more do you need to walk in on him? i know 3 years is a long time i stayed in mine for 6.. and not once did his pattern change... same song and dance.. infact he would always try to turn it on me and blame me... so tell him no and if he asks why, say cause threes a crowd A**hole. Go pick that chick up.
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