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writes:im 18, i first met my ex when i was 16 we started dating and were serious right off the bat...well i ended the relationship then restarted it then ended it then restarted it again...then after i graduated i broke up with him..i had many reasons for this...anywho about a month ago i couldnt get him out of my mind and started texting him he had a girlfriend and seemed happy. The more i talked to him the worse it hurt..i wanted him back, ive always loved him but had a hard time with some of his life...for example he dropped out of school and didnt have a very stable job because he was working for his parents and no license. Well he ended up telling me he wanted to break up with his girlfriend because she was abusive to him. One night we went to the movies he and my bestfriend and i and my friend left and we ended up kissing...he was still with his girlfriend. that night he broke up with her. He still loves me very much and i love him but i can tell he still has some reserves about us which im fine with, but he seems like he still loves his ex, i told him it was ok and he could get back with her if he wanted and that i understood, but he just says he needs to think about it...I understand that this can be taken as stupid teenage drama that wont last...but its different with him. Im not sure what to do, i hope this makes sense and someone can understand. What should i do?
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reader, bj94015 +, writes (30 November 2009):
easy to say that done, but you are playing with your feelings asked him in a nice way to break up with him, erase all the text and phone # of him, make yourself busy by going out with your friends, they say out of sight out of mind. goodluck
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reader, Sarah:) +, writes (30 November 2009):
 I'm only 19, but maybe I can help you.
From my experience, you just gotta hold on tight for his decision if you know you really love him, because then he probably loves you and will realize it.
If you think on it and decide you don't love him honestly, you just want to, tell him your finished, because odds are he doesn't really love you either.
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