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He wants to leave his girlfriend for me but I'm scared in case he hurts me again, help!

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Question - (2 January 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 January 2009)
A female age 36-40, *umelo writes:

hi pips, i've been in a relationship with pat(2003) and broke up (2005) it hasnt always been easy,cheats lies and everything i guess we were both young then, we recently got together we both have kids with different partners, the thing is we still love each other.

the problem is he has a galfriend and im not involved,with anyone,i cant ask him to leave his girlfriend for me, and i told him he needed to sort himself out, he says he wants to be with me as im the one who is closer to his heart, i want him to just forget about us, cause i love him too much, and im scared he might hurt me again, he doent want to let go

pleease help

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009):

jz think about it......are you willing to go through the pain of getting hurt to be with himm?..............my gf had the same thing with me we broke up kuz i hurt her bt she said she would rather go thruogh the pain of knowing what i did than to go though the pain of losing me.............so think about it have the pain of losing him forever or go through the pain of what hes done

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