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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi everybody. I met a guy 3 years back. We became good friends. He has been waiting for sex with me since 3 years. I have started loving him though he never says that he loves me too. But he wishes to have sex with me. He has also admitted that he is having just sexual relations with another girl also.I also want to get intimate with him, but i cannot bear his relations with other girl. What should i do friends.BTW this is my first relation. I never had sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): Sounds like your friend isn't worthy to be your first, last or in between. So said yourself he doesn't love you. Why would you really want to waist your time with a guy who has so social masculinity (social masculinity- ability to be a good friend, companion, and maybe one day decent father and husband) what soever? He'll only be using you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): Tell him you care about him too much for it to just be sex between you and nothing more, you want to be in a relationship with him and you want to mean more to him than being 'the other girl'. xx
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reader, frankiebh  +, writes (20 December 2008):
well it sounds like you want a real relationship but he just wants the sexual parts.
if you have sex with him you are not going to be happy, because you are going to expect more form him and he is going to get frustrated and maybe stop takling to you after he gets what he wants. which in this case is sex.
i would say dont have sex with him, dont date him, find a guy that will genuinely make you happy.
if you can handle being friends with him then great, but he should be able to handle just being frineds too.
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