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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: HelloI've just met a guy. We 're going out for 2 months. His erection last 2-4 hours before he can ejaculate. Is it normal for a guy to last that long? In my past relationships men lasted only 2-5minutes then ejaculated. While with him he wants to have sex for 4 hours and told me to read a book or talk to a friend on the phone in case if I get bored, if I want to because he enjoys having sex that long. Is it all normal?
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (27 March 2011):
Sorry I hit send by mistake.
Delayed ejaculation ( when the guy cannot ever come before at least 45 minutes of intercourse ) is a sexual dysfunction that has either physical or ( more often ) psychological causes or both, and if this guy had some common sense he'd go to get himself checked rather than suggesting you to read, because not all women are avid book readers and at his rythm, what happens when you have finished " War and Peace " or " Gone with the wind " or some other chunky bestseller ?
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female
reader, CindyCares +, writes (27 March 2011):
delayed ejaculation
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): No it's not common.
You should be floating on air by the next morning. Lucky you.
Pity there will not be as much time over, for maintenance around the home?
He's clearly a practical man, with the suggestions he put to you.
Besides books to read, you could get a pile of crossword puzzle books to put beside the bed. Supplies to buff your nails? In winter you might like to consider knitting.
He should appreciate all the sweaters you
may be able to knit him.
Just cherish this gem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): I would arguably say that isnt normal. My guess is he has some kind of medical condition with his penis he is unaware of. Suggest to him that he should get a check-up and if it isnt physical, it could be psychological. Best to you on this.
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