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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 1/2 years. In 2006 we broke up for 6 months and in that time I drank a little to much and slept with his brother. About 4 months after that we got back together and I told him what happened. We worked it out where we could pick up where we left off. Now just about 4 months ago I took our dog to a horse farm where I worked and she got stepped on by a horse and was killed. My ex got the dog for his birthday but we both treated her as a kid and she was also mine too. I called him right after the accedent and told him what happened. Then the next day he kicked me out and broke up with me. I later find out I am pregnant with his child and we still talk. I love him with all my heart and he is the man I want to be with for the rest of my life. I told him all this about my feelings and his reply was if I can find a reason to work around what has happened and to cope with the problems and not having the reacurr then we can get back together. He doesnt want to get back together just because of our child. But for love. I need help with him to trust me again and to get my love back. Please Help!!
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reader, penta +, writes (6 August 2007):
 Not sure I understand. He doesn't want to get back with you unless it's for love (regardless of the child). Does this mean that he doesn't want you back?
If this is the case, then you are better off without him. You don't want a loveless marriage anyway. See a lawyer to make sure that he pays child support; he has responsibilities to this child.
As for gaining trust, here's an article that might help:
http://www.ehow.com/how_2040630_spouse-trust-again.html
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