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writes:I just started dating a man an after a month he is asking for a commitment. Not marriage but he wants me to tell him it is him and only he that I will be dating because he wants to see where this will go. I don't want to lose his friendship but I feel this is going too fast and he is way too demanding in even suggesting this after only a few short weeks where we have spent more time on the phone than in person. I think it is overall his personality seeing he is in law enforcement but whatever it is I cringe even when the phone rings lately. I want to tell him in a nice way and have hinted a few times and its almost like he knows whats coming and he turns it around on me and talks me out of it! He's good LOL I think it would be best to completely break it off because we have personality conflicts? Any suggestions?Suffocating Reply to this Question
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reader, Teacake +, writes (22 November 2008):
 How to get out of it is the problem. All you can say is that you don't share the same feelings and you are sorry. That you are not interested in a serious relationship at the moment.
Its not a good idea to remain friends because he will become more and more demanding and no doubt verbally abusive.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2008): I think you have answered your own question, you want to break it off. Explain it to him kindly so that he knows where he is going wrong. He probably doesn't realise he's doing it.
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