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writes:hello, I need some views about this. My 9 month boyfriend is the best guy, he has always treated me like a princess, he is very introverted and shy, and he hasn't been very lucky with women. I am his first real relationship, and he has alwas said that has has never like anyone as he likes me and that he has a lot of feelings for me. On the other hand, he is everything to me, even when I know he is not the most hansome guy in the world, in my eyes he is, i like everything about him, but the other day he made me a coment that let me thinking, we were talking and the subject of cheating comes out because we were talking about other people, and he told me that he is not a jelaous guy, that if he has a girlfriend that cheat on him, he may forgive her.So for me cheat is inconceivable, that is one thing that I don't forget, so i asked him "if I cheat would you forgive me?" and he told me "yes, it is just I like you so much", so i don't know how to take this comment, does this mean that he doesn't care about our relationship?, does this mean that he care so little bout me that he doesn't care if I am in bed with other men?, please opinions are highly wellcome
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 Don't test people's love by seeing if they will get jealous. Or judge their love by words like those of your boyfriend. It's a silly, silly way to judge love -- how possessive he is, especially when he's speaking hypothetically.
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reader, Nicole.x  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 Look at it like this. If he didn't care about you would he treat you in the good way that he does? Forgivin someone for cheating is a very hard thing to do, and this is what really tests some relationships. If you are his first serious relationship then perhaps he is saying he would forgive you because he doesn't ever want it to end. Forgivin someone for cheating is often harder than first thought, if your boyfriend has never been cheated on then he may not realise how hard it really is. However im sure that if no cheating happens and you both think the world of one another then there is nothing to worry about :).
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