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writes:hey i have a huge problem right nowso my bf of ten and a half months we broke up the day after v-day, i broke up with him cuz i was mad he lied to me about gettin a ride home with someone and i found out the instead of him getting a ride home from one of his friends he was getting a ride home from this girl he use to have a thing with this girl and him were texting naughty in the beginging of our relationship and i gave him a second chance then a rumor went around in the summer that she started and it was that he had sex with her, he denied it so i gave him another chance then everything was fine untill i freaked out about the lie and that him and his friend was getting a ride home from this girl and her sister so i broke up with him the next day after i found out then i regreted it and wanted him back and he said ok babe we will talk about this in person tomorrow well then i found out the he texted this girl the night i broke up with him and picked her up and went for a walk and hung out i found out and got mad and he said he did it to make me mad so i drove over to his house that night and got my stuff then the next day i went back over to talk to him and he said he does want me back but we should be frieds first then today he said he wants to be friends with this girl and i told him that if your going to be frieds with her i cant be in your life at all and he said that he didnt know what to do he said he didnt want to lose me but he didnt want to hurt her feelings either so my question is what should i do? i still love him but i keep finding myself getting hurt, and what do you guys think about this? im just so confused on what to do thanks for listening
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Woah, This is a biggy.
First off, this boy is nothing but a player. He wants you, but he also wants this other girl too. If he wanted just one of you, it wouldn't be so hard to make a decision. When you love somoene, you do anything for them no matter what. He isn't doing that for you. It seems to me that he shouldn't really be with anyone. He seems confused. I think you should get out while you can hun. Don't put up with any more of this shit. It's not fair on you, and you will end up getting extremely hurt. Trust me, I've been there.xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): Eh...
If he really loves you, in my opinion, he'd be willing to not see her.
I mean come on, it's not going to kill him to not be around her.
But don't get me wrong, nobody likes a relationship where one partner says you can't hang out with a huge list of people...
I think it's perfectly except-able for you to ask him not to see her.
Also... if I had to guess, if they were texting that shit... I would imagine he really cheated on you...
This guy sounds like a douchebag to be, I say leave him.
I hope, if you do break up with him, that you don't ever take him back either.
So what if he wants you back? Doesn't mean he's not going to cheat.
He might want you back, but I'm sure he wants all the other girls back too (For fun).
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