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anonymous
writes:hi...my boyfriend left me saying tat he needed space...and i still love him and i want to be with him..he says he also wants to be with me but at the same time he does not want to be with me..please tell me how should i get him back..!! i really love him alot Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): Give him the space if he loves you he will come back, you know us girls can be to loud and full on sometimes and guys just get annoyed with it real easy. I have own house wif boyfriend and trust me i annoy him with talking all the time, he just likes to be quiet have his coffee smokes and watch tv.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): Give him the gift of what he is asking for, let him have the space and the gift of missing you.
Back off and don't contact him at all, no form of contact. Let him contact you.
I don't know much about the two of you or your relationship, but generally when a guy gives you mixed messages like this he is trying to see what else is out there and he is keeping you on the string in case he doesn't find the next big deal.
He doesn't sound like he is looking for a long term relationship and you can't go chasing a guy and get him to love you or stay with you. In fact you may be hurting your chances of being with a great guy who is looking for a long term if not permanent relationship by putting up with this kind of actions.
Usually if guys are just scared, they just back off they don't announce they want a break, they just get a bit silent and move away from you, this doesn't sound to be the case here.
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