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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I am a thirteen year old girl, in a relationship with a great guy and i really like him. But yesterday, one of my best friends told me that the boy i have had a crush on since i first met him likes me. This boy is so much like me, we have so much in commen and we go to the same school and talk alot. I hardly ever see my current boyfriend we have not got nearly as much in commen as me and the other boy. The boy who likes me doesn't know i have a boyfriend and now i dont want to tell him. My current boyfriend is a really sensitive guy and he's my cousin's best friend.What should i do, should i stay with my current boyfriend and stay friends with the boy i've had a huge crush on for years, or break up with my current boyfriend so i have a chance with the other boy, even though im scared it will hurt his feelings alot and hurt his relationship with my cousin.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): First of all, you're so young, so stop sweating it! It's bad to get in the habit of being in a relationship but always being ready to move on if a better opportunity arises, which is what this sounds like. However, it sounds like you feel obligated to be in your current relationship and if your attention is so easily swayed from your current boyfriend, then maybe you should consider why that is. I doubt you will marry either of these guys, but it is important to consider their feelings. It is also important to consider your own feelings as well, if you stay in your current relationship, but feel like you're missing out, then your relationship will suffer. Also if you stay in your current relationship and stay friends with the guy you want to date, that will also cause problems. You are not responsible for your boyfriend and cousin's friendship, that's something they will learn to consider if problems arise from this situation. Good luck! =)
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