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writes:hiya im 14 and i know i lied about my age but anyways ive been going out with my boyfriend for two weeks now and ive liked him for ages and we have went out before. but this time feels like we are girlfriend and boyfriend properly. we kiss and snog and hug all the time and everyday. but the thing is we never know what to speak about, we do speak but we can never think of a good subject to talk about? also today i never seen him except a few times in the school corridor( hes in none of my classes) but we didn't really hang or speak when we seen each other? i thin he doesnt like me anymore? am i just worrying about nothing? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): Firstly, you don't have to lie about your age. You don't have to be 18 in order to be on this site.
Secondly, when you're conversing with a friend/boyrfriend/relative, all you have to do is let your personality out. I'm sure you don't sit next to your best friend awkwardly, having nothing to talk about. You are yourself with her. You may even have trouble keeping it quite in class!
Just be your charming little self.
Talk about him though, becuase anyone gets bored if they're talking to someone who can't keep the subject off of themselves.
Talk about his music, hobbies, friends, and make jokes about it all if you want. Talk about stories from a long time ago, your parents and the relatinship you both have with them, talk about school and how they're doing, teachers and which ones they like/dislike, old relationshps, favourite foods..
I liked to play a game when I was first with my man. I asked him what his favoutire ___ was and then i
d tell him mine. Then we'd come up with a different favourite.
(what's your fav animal?
ok, whats your fav colour?
ok whats your fav food)
so on and so forth. You can do that for ages. You just want to learn about him, and there are a million ways to do that.
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