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writes:So my boyfriend and myself have been talking about sex he keeps saying he is ready and i an to but i want to wait a little longer what should i tell him so he will understand and wont get mad at of Reply to this Question
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reader, RosesAreRed86 +, writes (27 October 2009):
You're too damn young to deal with the extremely complicated emotions and baggage that come as a result of having sex. I don't mean to sound patronizing, but it's just the truth. I know you may think you're big and mature and really smart and able to deal with adult emotions, but that's cause you're young and cocky. I'm 24 and I still have a hell of a lot of growing up to do. I know for certain that if I had lost my virginity so young that it would have been for the wrong reasons. You may think you're in love now, but trust me, you're not.
Plus, you're probably not going to get married to this guy and you'll come across as a huge slut to anybody who you date down the road if they find out you lost your virginity so young. I know you're probably too young to realize that your actions now will have ramifications for the rest of your life, but trust me, they will and you may very well end up regretting what you did.
I know that if I were to meet a girl now who told me that she lost her virginity at age 13 or 14, it would totally set off alarm bells for me and I'd think "what a slut."
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2009): i know that this is a novel concept, but you might try...'im 14 for crying out loud.' You shouldnt have sex until you are mature enough to handle pregnacy. Because it sometimes happens even while using birth control. I was 16, and became pregnant within 6 wks of losing my virginity and i was using birth control. I dont know how old your boyfriend is but if he is your age...sex is illegal. If he is older he could go to jail for rape, even if you consent...
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