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writes:okay so here is my question. I am confused about the concept of premature ejaculation. I am a virgin but am talking about sex with with my GF. I can ejaculate fairly quickly by myself if the mood is right and i put my mind to it. Obviously timing isn't an issue when you're alone it's about quick satisfaction. However i'm worried because i know that having sex is going to arouse me and it won't take much. However i do know when i'm about to ejaculate and i know pretty much when to stop. I'm just worried that i will get the feeling so much i will constantly have to stop and start. Are there are any tricks i can use to control it enough to know when to stop?
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reader, natasia  +, writes (27 October 2009):
 First rule: Don't get hung up about it. It will take time and practice to discover yourself how everything (and you) work. Frankly, I think the best thing is to allow yourself to orgasm in your own time - which may indeed be v quickly - but given your age, etc, you will most likely be ready to go again fairly soon, but as you will already have got it out of your system a bit ; ) the second time will take longer to orgasm. If you haven't had sex for a while you will always orgasm more quickly (whatever your age), and if you think about it, you have had several young-adult years without intercourse, so it's only natural that at the start it may be very quick. The tricks I have heard of are counting the wallpaper pattern, thinking about your tax return, that kind of thing (from my partner!), but really it's to do with learning to control and release your own body in the way that suits you. As I say, at your age you have the distinct advantage that even though you may come very quickly, you will also be able to come again soon, and again. Hey. Have fun : )
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reader, RosesAreRed86 +, writes (27 October 2009):
Just give it a try and you'll get the hang of it. No advice we can really give you, but practice makes perfect. If she's a good girlfriend she'll be understanding if your first few times aren't the best.
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