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female
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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but he also wants me to smoke WEED with him before we do it so I can get high. I don't know if I should because I'm worried that if he gets high he'll forget to put a condom on and I might get pregnent. What should I do?
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reader, vanessadazed +, writes (7 March 2009):
well marijuana in general is illegal but also having sex while intoxicated is also illegal. the law states under the influence you can't consent to sex. but i do admit i've done it after smoking and it was great so i think your boyfriend has good intentions. but if you're uncomfortable with it don't do it.
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reader, Santashelper +, writes (5 March 2009):
 dont do it if you dont want to. if he wont do it with you cause you wont smoke pot dump him
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (5 March 2009):
 If your not comfortable then don't do it!
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reader, tux +, writes (5 March 2009):
 Why didn't you put on the condom????
Because I got high, because I got high, because I got high...
But you shouldn't do anything you don't want to.. If you don't want to get high beforehand don't.
But anyways as for pot.. No matter how many times you want to hear that it's not addictive.. it is addictive to some people.. Some people get addicted to alcohol, sex, nicotine... anything and everything can be addictive. When it comes to drugs it can be easier to get hooked because it screws with your chemical balance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): do not do it it is unhealthy
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reader, Dazed & Confused +, writes (5 March 2009):
Well, let me clear things up by saying that Weed is not physically addictive and it's not dangerous either since no one has EVER died from overdosing on weed.
But like anything else, it is your decision whether or not you want to smoke. If you don't, he has to accept your wishes. If you're worried about him not wearing a condom, then definitely say no, and if he doesn't accept, then he can go jerk off by himself!
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (5 March 2009):
 You don't completely lose your mind when you smoke weed. Just lay the condom out beforehand. You'll be fine and you'll have fun. However I must warn you, weed may affect your b/f's ability to obtain or maintain an erection. This is sometimes a side effect. He probably wants to get loaded so he will feel less embarrassed by your first time. Just have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): Sex is much more enjoyable sober.. I don't know why people say, 'let's get drunk then do it' etc. Like why? Sober you get the full on full on experience, you get to feel everything.. may that be good or bad. Why does he want you to smoke weed and then have sex with him anyways? is there a specific reason? anyways, if you do decide to this, make sure you don't get to blasted, and forget the condom..!
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (5 March 2009):
 I doubt it would be as bad as you think.
But.... a lot of poor decisions are made while under the influence. During my wild teen years I did experiment with sex and weed, and it was fun, but not any more fun than just having sex with someone you like/ love.
Aside from just getting pregnant, think about the other social implications of getting high. If you happen to find a new job in the near future a drug test could be done, and you might miss out on a great employment opportunity. If you work now and your employer does drug testing, you can get fired.
It's really up to you to decide if it's worth it. If you do decide to get high, try to relax and not be so paranoid. And you are just as responsible for that condom getting on, so don't just sit back and close your eyes and leave it up to him. You sit up and watch and make sure he does it right.
Just be safe.
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