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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend wants me to give him blow jobs all the time however he has only ever given me oral once. I don't know what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007):
Are you saying you want to give him oral sex but only if he gives you oral sex?
This shouldn't be able getting back what you give.
Perhaps he just does not like giving oral sex, but I am sure there are tons of other things he can do to please you. But you too, of course, shouldn't give oral sex unless you actually like doing it.
But don't, both of you, do things only for the sake of having it returned. That is not how things should be. You should both feel happy and satisfied but by only doing things you want and like doing for each other.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2007): in my opinion i think he is an average selfish pig or that he is shy and uncomfortable doing things to you but really if you are giving him something you deserve to get it back in return, it should always be that way!
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reader, AskEve +, writes (18 March 2007):
 He gives you oral first then you'll reciprocate, simple!
Eve
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (18 March 2007):
its unfair to expect a partner to do something then dont give back , sex is a two way thing and both parties should leave the experience happy and satisfied.
without being crude, have you thought of your personal hygene or is it totally his selfishness?
if the man wont do his job and please you, or even listen to you about what you like then you only have one choice. get a better partner who knows what his tongues for.
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reader, kenny +, writes (18 March 2007):
 The only thing you can really do is talk to him about it. Stress to him that you are unsatisfyed, ask why its you giving all the pleasure but no pleasure is being returned.
Communication is the key, i hope after you have spoken he may be more willing to satisfy you needs.
Hope this helps x
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