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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My bf seems attracted to everything I'm not and whilst I realise that it's natural to be attracted to a wide range of attributes , I can't help but wonder if he is only with me because he can't actually find a woman who fits that bill of what REALLY turns him onThe other women he looks at all seem similar in that they are thin, usually blonde and he also has a thing for women who have a prominent clitoris (sorry to be explicit) I feel that women who fit this bill ( obviously talking about the model type look not clitoris ) are not usually seen and are the minority and many men might want them so his chances of getting one are slimIt makes me feel horrible to think he is settling for me and I am second best. How do I overcome these feelings
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2014): Well, more often than not people compromise. If that's the case with your BF, how would that make you feel? Would you leave him?
Sometimes people don't know what they have until they lose it. I wanted to sya that he's being immature, but if your age is correct, he's got no right to be. By now he should know what he wants and to cherish what he has.
And frankly, if you're right, if he has a list of things he likes in a woman, why should you overcome these bad feelings you have. Act on them. Clear things out. Make him realize that he can lose you.
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