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writes:so i asked a question befor should i let the father of my unborn baby be part of his life .. and i took everyones advise i decided to let him know and decide to help. he hasnt helped yet but im only 6 months i still got 3 mnths left and he wnts to b here for me . he wants to go to doctor visits and he wants to see me sometimes and i know that he has a girlfreind and theyre serious but i dont want to act like im jealous because im not im just concerned that hes hiding us ..and i recently found out he decided to tell her about me and the baby . and he was also thinking of gettin a dna test =/ hmm it hurt me and made me furious cause he was never in my plans to start with i told him i was having a baby cause everyone said it was the rite thing but now that i know he thinks like this im not sure if i want him around me cause its not rite if he rlly feels that way towards me and the baby why cant he be open up to me and tell me he thinks hes not the dad i cant tell him anything cause he doesnt know the person he told told me and it would cause drama .. what should do now ??
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reader, dirtball +, writes (21 March 2011):
 What harm is there in letting him put his mind at ease about being a father? It sounds like this wasn't expected, and even though it hurts to think he doesn't trust you, it's not like you two are together either. Why not get a test to prove he's the father? Are you afraid he might not be?
I sympathize with you, and you've got a very difficult road ahead of you, but sometimes you have to pick your battles, and this may be one you just want to not fight. He's scared and he will always have doubts until he does a DNA test. Why not eliminate those doubts for good?
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