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writes:Hey :) so I've been seeing this guy for five months, but we aren't officially a couple. I slept with him for the first time a month ago, but I thought that he was just using me. But the last time I slept with him he wanted to hold my hands and he stroked my face during it and afterwards. Does this mean anything d'yah think ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Charlpop  +, writes (1 August 2011):
 Maybe it just means he's ready to be more affectionate with you, rather than just sex. So if you're worried about him using you, this seems like a step away from that.
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reader, princessjasmine  +, writes (1 August 2011):
he might crave affection after sex to make it feel more than just sex, but then afterwards go back to not really being that into you OR he might actually start to fall for you, love takes time, esp for men!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2011): No, it's his behaviour apart from sex that will tell you if he is using you or not. Like..not wanting to be your boyfriend or not be in a commitment will tell you he's using you. At 5 months, he should know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2011): in my eyes he wanted to make it more than sex, he wanted to make it passionate. From where i am sitting, he is deeply in love with you.
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (1 August 2011):
 He is showing warm gestures, his warm feelings through touch.
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